A "gotcha moment"

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Registered: 06-01-2009
A "gotcha moment"
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Fri, 05-14-2010 - 10:46am
In the car with H yesterday..Conversation turnded to fidelity...I dont even remember how but it did...And I said which of your friends have been faithful...It took him a few minutes to name a few...So I teasec him about how long it took him to come up with a few names of people he knew that are faithful...So he looks at me and says "yeah but your friend "stacy" was gonna write a letter to an ex...and than he says that "that is falling off the wagon and heading down the road"..he means of course towards cheating..and here is my AHA MOMENT!!!!!!!! Is say she never sent the letter and she never texted her ex 20 to 100 times daily did she????? I caught my H texting his ex 20 to 100 times daily..ahhhh that felt good to spat that out......He dug his own hole with this one!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah I still have a lot of unresolved anger I am supressing....We havent talked about what happened in awhile...I plan to talk to him this weekend!!!!! I need to let some of this out!!! I have started having daily nightmares of him cheating/ or me cheating to get back at him...after having relations I often cry silently in the dark because I am sharing myself with this man who has soooo hurt me...He didnt physically cheat but he still stabbed me i the heart with a knife!!!!!!! It sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 05-17-2010 - 9:56am
Cheating does suck. I'm glad you were able to get out some of your resentment - I know it's hard to let go of those kinds of feelings. ((HUGS))

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