having to deal with the pain alone...

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Registered: 07-11-2009
having to deal with the pain alone...
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Sat, 07-11-2009 - 9:46am

Hello, I'am a soon to be 39yr

leahd2009
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Registered: 05-23-2009
Sat, 07-11-2009 - 10:42am

holy moly --


YES too soon for your kids to be exposed to her and to take HER on a vacay planned for the 4 of you??

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Registered: 07-11-2009
Sat, 07-11-2009 - 10:50am
Thank you for your kind words, unfourtunately, I did share my some of my dirty laundry with a few close friends and at the present time I'm way to fragile to hear the negatives thoughts.....
leahd2009
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 9:08am
I'd go "no contact" with this guy pronto - discuss nothing except essential child issues.
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Registered: 07-11-2009
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 9:37am

Thanks Lily for the advice.

leahd2009
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 2:36pm
You have it backwards - it isn't "how can he come home to me after a vacation with the OW" but "isn't he scared to death to come home to me after a vacation with the OW"?