He cheated/should i leave or not

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Registered: 02-16-2010
He cheated/should i leave or not
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Tue, 02-16-2010 - 3:27pm
Please help I'm struggling and don't know what to do. I just found out my husband had a one time affair with his church member, he says he doesn't not have feelings for her and it was a mistake.
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Registered: 02-16-2010
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 3:45pm

Pink,


Too bad he used a condom, poetic just at it's finest..

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Registered: 01-07-2010
Tue, 02-16-2010 - 5:41pm

No one can (or should!) tell you whether you should leave or not. That decision is one only your heart-soul-mind should make.


I can't even imagine the heartache you're feeling, having to endure a lifetime with a disease that he brought into your marriage bed.


I keep trying to keep in mind a line from Golden Girls, when Sophia asks Dorothy, "If you could erase this one instance from your life, is this still the man you want to spend the rest of your life with?" That's really what it (IMHO) needs to come down to.


Good luck.