He destroyed my dream

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Registered: 06-13-2009
He destroyed my dream
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Sat, 06-13-2009 - 11:11pm

I have never done anything like this before but I think it would be quite therapeutic for me to get my story out there to those who have gone through what I am going through now and can understand the pain, anger, and sadness I am feeling right now.

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Registered: 04-14-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 12:04am

Sorry to hear your story.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 11:39am
I am so sorry for your pain - your H obviously has some mental health issues that he would have this many affairs.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 12:08pm

Thank you for your kind words.

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Registered: 06-13-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 12:19pm

Thanks for your post.

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 12:59pm

Sooo sorry to hear about your situation. Wish I could say something to make you feel better, but I know words don't help much.


I have been married to my husband or 41 years. I found out, as you did, that my husband has had many affairs over the years with women he worked with. It has been 2 years since I found out. I remain wounded over it. I see a therapist twice a month. I am sure it is helpful, but... I am suspicious about everything, everything reminds me of his infidelity. I am just sick. If you find sonething that is helpful to you, or anyone else, please share.


dogracermom

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Registered: 02-10-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 4:37pm

You have not been robbed. You have been saved from a life of misery! Consider this a blessing in disguise. You now know his true character and luckily you have no children. My H and I are divorcing after his 2 affairs and we have been married for 25 yrs w/2 children. It is heartbreaking although I am doing very well now and moving on. I wish this had happened to me after only 4 years! It makes it so much sadder when it's so many years together of a happy marriage for the first 20 years.

Think of your future and the many wonderful years ahead with someone, the right person, who will love you and cherish you. Good luck!

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Registered: 02-04-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 4:47pm

CJL, I'm so sorry you're in this mess but glad you've found support.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 06-13-2009
Sun, 06-14-2009 - 5:58pm

Thank you to all of you for your kind words.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2009
Sun, 06-21-2009 - 12:38am

It's been 2 weeks since I saw my husband.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Sun, 06-21-2009 - 10:51am

I am so sorry for what you are going through and what I'm about to say is kinda smack in the face, but

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