He just won't stop!

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Registered: 04-28-2009
He just won't stop!
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Tue, 04-28-2009 - 1:54pm
Ok, my 'husband' of 7 years talks to other women ALL day!!! I have the phone records to prove it.I know one of them is married, and I know where she works. She calls him just as much as he calls her. . .and yes, literally they talk like 10-30+ minutes at a time...at least 5 times a day. Some days they talk for
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Registered: 02-11-2009
Tue, 04-28-2009 - 2:07pm
Your problem is with him. Going to her will solve nothing. If you have asked him over and over to stop then it means he doesnt value your feelings. Its TIME to look to either marriage counceling or divorce
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Registered: 08-11-2007
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 6:59am

IMHO that's absolutely unacceptable.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 7:15am

I agree - the problem is with your H, not this OW.

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Registered: 04-28-2009
Wed, 04-29-2009 - 10:51pm
He is a truck driver. He works all the time. He also talks on the phone ALL day. I only have a problem with him talking to women, because he expects me not to talk to anyone. I can't even have female friends without him thinking that we're doing something,...like having sex. I already know that this is not normal behavior. I want a divorce. I just really want to talk to this woman to find out from her if what he tells me is true. It won't make me stay with him. I would just have peace of mind to know. Now, I know that she could lie to me. I just want to know if there are women out there who are talking to another woman's husband, or if you wish you would've talked with the other woman. I could go on and on, but I will spare you all the messed up crap that has been my life for the last 12 years.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 04-30-2009 - 4:40pm
I did try to talk to the OW - wouldn't do it if I were in the same situation today, though. I only wanted to express the pain that A made me feel.
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Registered: 07-02-2008
Fri, 05-01-2009 - 11:50pm

Wow, 12 years is a long time to live in an unhappy M. No, do not try to talk to the OW because they do NOT care in the least about anyone's feelings but their own. If she does talk to you, she will most likely lie to you.

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Registered: 05-02-2009
Sat, 05-02-2009 - 11:26pm

You clearly don't have a clue here. Don't bother to call her because she will lie to you too and you will be left where you started information-wise. Nothing further and the other woman will have gotten her rocks off over your call to her.


So, you can't talk to anybody per his order?? Hmmm, I don't take orders too well. So, it's time for you to get yourself on a 1-800