He won't talk
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|Fri, 01-29-2010 - 11:13pm|
Coming out of lurkdom...posted a couple weeks ago about finding out about my husband's affair ("it was just a kiss" he says...you don't tell someone you love them after just a kiss...)
I have not made any decisions yet...and am trying to talk to him (via text/email because we can't talk about our issues without fighting lately-that's the only way to truly hear what each other has to say about it). The problem is he won't "talk"...won't answer my questions, won't tell me who (although I am 99% certain who), won't tell me what he wants...but seems to have already told everyone else that he is moving out an we are separating (even led his parents to believe that I had kicked him out-NOT TRUE!)
I don't know what to do. I feel so alone (even though I have the support of my friends)...I don't understand what possesses a man to do this to the woman who has given him 17 years of her life (I know what he says is the reason-he felt neglected and pushed away, as if I should be overly loving and affectionate to a man who has repeated emotional affairs, caught having sex chats, and now cheats on me...)
I think he wants me to make the decision...and I don't know what to do...
Feeling Very Sad,