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| Wed, 04-18-2012 - 10:37pm |
Hi, All,
Well, I never suspected I would be posting on this board, but I guess I have joined the group of people who are coping with life after an affair. My husband revealed to me three weeks ago that he had an affair with a woman for less that six months. I was devastated. I never saw it coming.
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Thank you for your lengthy reply. Your situation sounds very similar to mine. I have written a letter to the OW, but I have not sent it. I wrote it a couple days after I found out, but I haven't sent it because I do not want to come off as the raving lunatic wife. I wish the tapes of what I know about them would stop playing in my head. I try to not dwell on what has happened but it's so hard. I pray and pray for healing. I want to go to marriage counseling but my husband is against it. I haven't given up hope that I can change his mind about it. I know he wants to help me heal and if counseling is the only way then so be it. I hope we can overcome this. Right now, if I had to say whether I will contact her or not, I think I will, but like u said, if she replies, I will block her. Her words will probably only cause me more pain.
My DDay was just over a year ago.