HELP ASAP

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2007
HELP ASAP
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Thu, 05-13-2010 - 8:33pm

I am needing help!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2010
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 3:17pm

I am so sorry for the terrible evening you must have had.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 3:58pm
So you confronted him and initially he lied.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2007
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 8:26pm

Well he left last night.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Fri, 05-14-2010 - 10:25pm
Re-read peacyma's last response, that about says it all right now.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Sat, 05-15-2010 - 12:52am
why was his phone shut off? I have only ever heard of that happening if you do not pay the bill
did you cut his texting minutes? hehe
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Sat, 05-15-2010 - 1:40am
Yes myradorn I firmly believe that old saying about "not knowing what you have until it's gone" Many times men/women in affairs just don't see the light UNTIL you kick them out and they KNOW you mean business. They will often times hang on to the OW/OM UNTIL they really realize that losing their home and family will be the price they pay. They need to figure out if the life they worked so hard and so many years for is worth risking for a chance that they MIGHT be happier with the OP. Their integrity and reputation as a good man, husband and father is often times something they don't want to lose in the end. But sometimes it just takes a while for them to realize that.
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Registered: 09-12-2008
In reply to: h2k_mommy
Sun, 05-16-2010 - 1:00am

You are so much stronger than I am. I threw myself at her feet and allowed her to use me as a door matt for a while. Not making her deal with the aftermath of her actions has only prolonged our problems.

Chin up. You are doing so well. In time, you will be very proud of yourself for standing up for you and your kids. You have to know that we are all looking on with awe.

Thomas

I have 5 kids ages 16-10. Our D Day was August, 2008.

Thomas

We have five kids. Our D-Day was in August, 2008.

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