help! i found another lie!
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|Fri, 02-13-2009 - 9:10am|
AAAARRRGGGGHHHH! Do the lies ever stop!?! When will I FINALLY know the true story?! For those of you who have read my story, I won't bore you, but basically, I found out about OW #2 almost 3 months into "rebuilding" and was then told that the lies were now completely done---100% honesty from this point forward. What a load of crap!! I have been desperately trying to find pictures of these women just to ease my mind that every woman matching their general description wasn't them and they weren't laughing at me as soon as I left the store,etc. SUCCESS! After months of searching, I finally found both of their myspace pages (private profiles of course) and though I could barely make out the pictures, at least I now have a general idea of what they look like.
The bad news? In doing so, I also found out that my H had still been lying about OW#1's age---she was 19 the first time they were together!!!! (He is 31) Although the age grosses me out (how much could they really have in common?) it's not the worst thing I've had to hear, but the fact that he intentionally lied (told me she was 28) about it and then continued to hide it from me is devastating!!! Now, I don't know if I can believe that there is nothing more he's hiding.
I aked him to move out (we only have 1 car so his parents who live 3 hrs away will pick him up Sat--Happy Valentine's Day!) so I can pack up and leave--he can figure out his own way to get to work!! I don't want to leave!!! I want to fix this, but I can't live always waiting for the next shoe to drop. He swears I now know absolutely everything, but I am not sure.
??? How do you know when your H has FINALLY told you the truth and is hiding nothing more?