help venting

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
help venting
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Fri, 01-22-2010 - 10:56am

Hi...I have been on before and jut need to vent...Married 15 years..My H and I have 5 kids 2 to 14....


We had a great marriage..I was happier than i could have ever been and than it all came crashing down.. last June I found a tex from a girl to my husband describing how to give a blow job and than another text from her saying she was horny..Instead of him telling her it was disrespectful to his marriage or telling me, he hid it..He kept it from me till i looked at his phone one day cause i had a gut feeling...


He agreed to cut off the frienship with hre and he did, I am as positive as I can be..


Than a few months later someone from a yahoo messanger group contacts him-m a girl from a porn site..


How does he respond- he writes to her that he is available to chat anytime..When confronted by me he says it is harmless and that he just enjoys screwing around with

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2009
In reply to: nda3
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 1:23pm

Hi nda,


I'm so sorry that you are in this position... but, you've found a great place for venting, and advice.


First, and most important

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
In reply to: nda3
Fri, 01-22-2010 - 2:48pm

Hi..Thank for the advice....And you hit it right on..I feel he is detaching from the marriage..My gut is screaming that something is wrong..I certainly have all the clues that something is wrong, a long trail......


I believe he still loves me which is good and