He's going back to his ex-wife......

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Registered: 09-20-2004
He's going back to his ex-wife......
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Sat, 02-21-2009 - 2:34pm

Hello everyone, I know this is a long read, but I could use some good advice right now and I know there's plenty out there!

sc

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 4:19pm

First of all I am so sorry about your predicament. You do not desrve this. This is a horrible thing, you have been put in a horrible position.


A lot of what you desribe about your husband sounds similar to what Doublesmommy has been through. Your husband sounds so selfish and inconsiderate, very mixed up, very uncaring. I also think he made his decisons before he left by his unkind, uncaring remarks.

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Registered: 09-20-2004
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 11:13pm

Dear Georgiannasx,


Thanks for responding to my post, I agree with you that he is very inconsiderate and very mixed up.

sc

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 8:34am

You sound really strong and like you can make it through this. I still do think he should

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-03-2008
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 11:27am

I'm very sorry that this is your reality right now.




iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2009
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 4:14pm

Let me say that you are a strong woman for making him accountable for his actions they way you did.

 


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2004
Sun, 03-08-2009 - 1:39pm

Hi Ladies,


Thank you so much for responding, I'm so sorry it's taken

sc

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 03-08-2009 - 5:41pm

Bless your heart!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2004
Sun, 03-08-2009 - 11:55pm

Thanks for all of the good advice you have given me.

sc

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 1:46am
That's bizarre, it almost sounds like he was comparing the two of you by being with you both, or like he's been trying to keep all his options wide open until he makes up his dumb mind, totally without regard to YOU.

 

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Registered: 06-03-2008
Mon, 03-09-2009 - 3:54pm

Your STBXH is like my XH.




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