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|Wed, 03-18-2009 - 12:10am|
I am glad I found this board. I think its helped already knowing I'm not alone. My husband and I have been married 6.5 years. I just found out he was having an affiar with something who he had a fling with while we were stationed overseas because her husband killed himself. That's why everything came out. I could feel it and would ask him questions and he would just lie and blame it on me for the reasons he was unhappy. But in my gut I KNEW it....
But his ability to lie to me over and over again was just unrelenting. Like I can't believe he could look me in the face and lie to me like he did. I am just hurt right now. I have been away from him for a month, and he has told me he's not inlove with me, but is now maybe going to fall back inlove with me when he comes to see our daughter in a couple weeks (she's 5)
I guess I just don't know where to go from here. I have great family down here--- I know that he doesn't love me, it was obvious by his actions I think and I want to move on so badly, no papers have