His affair is my (now) former best friend of 15 years!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2011
His affair is my (now) former best friend of 15 years!
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Wed, 04-13-2011 - 7:57pm

Hi,

Just found this forum and I guess I just need to share and get a new

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-12-2011

So sorry for your pain!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008

All the best to you V.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-1999
While I am sorry that your marriage is over, I am glad that you are able to find peace for yourself, and you really do sound like you are at peace. Good luck to you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2011

Thanks for all the replies and opinions.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008

Hi;

Yeah; wow... That is an awful lot to deal with.. OMG
I blame both of them.. Your friend who stole your husband and your huband. How sad and cruel !!!!!

All you can do is divorce him.. Dont wait for him to do it. He benefits by not having to take any responsibility for the divorce. Maybe dividing assets and all or he is just afraid of change ...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008

wow, peace & strength to you

he is not the man you thought he was

he wants to share with you and his soulmate?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008

Sorry you are having to deal with this. I mean a betrayal is bad enough, but a double betrayal is even worse. So how long has he been living with her? I guess the real question you need to ask yourself is how long are YOU willing to wait for him to figure out if the grass is greener over there?