HIS emails and my paranoia

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Registered: 05-09-2008
HIS emails and my paranoia
Thu, 04-16-2009 - 3:54pm

Since dday 3 my DH has been emailing me from work. Somethings I noticed different

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Registered: 02-16-2009
Thu, 04-16-2009 - 9:44pm

Unfortunately he probably did.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Fri, 04-17-2009 - 2:09am
I'm inclined to agree with the other poster, he learned that somewhere and has been using it.


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Registered: 08-11-2008
Fri, 04-17-2009 - 10:47am
We are 9.5 months past D-Day and my DH started using "shortcuts" when texting me also. We never used to text before his A but have started doing it a lot. It really bothered me at first but I decided to make it "our" special thing that we do to each other. Another thing he does when we are intimate was "new" to us and that also bothered me at first but I have learned to enjoy that also. If the XOW is truly out of your M throw her out of your head. She doesn't belong their. He is YOUR H and she had no business sharing things with someone else's H in the first place, so put her where she belongs in the trash can. I know it's hard but you have to make your mind say STOP, she is not worth it and move her and their experience out of your head.
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Registered: 03-23-2009
Fri, 04-17-2009 - 3:23pm

That was my very first thing I noticed different about my H before I had enough clues to realize he was having an affair.

All of a sudden my "send two 3 word text messages a month" husband was texting in scentences.