How do I cope?
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|Tue, 08-27-2013 - 5:10pm|
I noticed a change in my husband last week. He said he feels like he was going through a mid-life crisis and is evaluating everything.
He admitted to me today that he is having an online affair. He doesn't want to make any decisions right now but would like to evaluate what he really wants while he puts our relationship on hold. While the other woman does not live close by and is currently married he said he can see himself falling in love with her. I don't want to lose him and I want to be understanding.
I want to stay in the same house because I am not ready for our 5 and 2 year old to know until I know what I want to do; plus, I don't have the finances to go elsewhere. Also, our daughter just started school and I want us both to be there for her.
I don't feel like he is evaluating everything. I want him to go to counseling with me, but he says he is not ready for that yet. I just don't know how I am supposed to cope with this?