How do I make him understand?
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|Wed, 04-08-2009 - 8:53am|
I had such a rough night last night. My H and I fought for the majority of the night. D Day was a week ago and I was feeling a little impowered and calm. Then last night it all just hit me like a ton of bricks.
I broke down- but didn't cry, scream, accuse or anything. I was still very calm but I just had a wave of emotion in me. I feel emotionally drained. He's just beaten me with this betrayal.
I've read some posts that suggest that you let your spouse see your hurt. How do I show him I'm hurt? I can't cry anymore. I feel like I need to- I can feel all of my emotions right on the surface- but I can't cry. I didn't eat at all yesterday. Finally at about 11 (during our fight) I was feeling weak and decided I would eat a spoonful of peanut butter.
I just want to know how you express those emotions to your H (or W)? Did you just cry in front of them? Tell them they've hurt you? Sulk around the house? Sleep more? Stop eating? Give them sad eyes?