How do you handle the ANGER???

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Registered: 01-13-2009
How do you handle the ANGER???
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Tue, 01-13-2009 - 10:32pm

I am still new to this. I put the pieces together 3 weeks ago and I am so mad I want to beat the crap out of my W's boss. I literally want to go into their office (a very large company) and beat him the cafeteria infront of everyone. I want to hurt this pr*ck so bad that he will never look at another married woman.


I can't stand looking at my W and she told me that she is moving out to her sister's this weekend. I offered to help her pack today.


Everyone found out in the last 7 days. Her parents, my parents, her brothers & sisters

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 10:06pm

That ship has already sailed. My sisters are bringing my girls home tomorrow. Her brothers cam by the house today to get the rest of her stuff. The master bedroom sset is going to her saturday or in the trash. I don't want it in the house.


I feel like I should take every stick of furniture in the house and drive it to her sister;s house. Then have a huge bonfire....


I feel like my home has been contaminted if that makes any sense....


Raging Bull...

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 1:12am
I'm sorry, it really really really steams me when people cheat and then call it a "mistake".

 

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 6:06am

Thanks...Yeah my priest is not winning any awards here. He came over last night to tell me that my W will not be allowed to teach 9th grade CCD. I don't know if he was expecting me to be sympthetic but my attitude was..so what?


I have been up since 3am. The nightmares just won't stop.


I am picking my girls up after school today....


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Registered: 10-08-2008
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 9:15am

Raging Bull,


I am sorry for your pain, truly and I do understand, believe me, I wanted to go burn OWs house to the ground and I wanted her to lose her job, lucky her, she is still working at the same job, ( why the keep her incompetent ass, there I will never know?) she had only been hired 5 months prior.


I wanted to slash her tires, I wanted her to suffer as I have.

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Registered: 06-16-2006
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 1:14pm

Raging,


I have been following your posts, and

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Thu, 01-15-2009 - 10:28pm

Thank You..I have such mood swings that my sister asked me if I needed a Midol..so much for humor....


OM's W if shell shocked right now. I got a call from earlier today. Her H has been put on Administrative Leave??? I guess he is home with her. That should be interesting...


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Registered: 02-13-2007
Fri, 01-16-2009 - 6:56pm

Jack -


The comment about the Midol is pretty funny - and try to find humor wherever you can, even if it is gallows type humor.

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Sat, 01-17-2009 - 8:47pm

HW..Your words are so tryue. Right now I am seem to be in major "protection" mode for my girls. I am doing everything I can to shield them from all of the crap that is going on.


My family doctor called me today and wants to see me tomorrow, a Sunday, to check my blood pressure. He want to talk to me about anxiety medication.


Anxiety..what anxiety..I live on the Goodship Lollipop...


Jack...

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Registered: 10-09-2008
Tue, 01-20-2009 - 9:20pm

I just read all this, Jack.

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-21-2009 - 6:31am

Thank You...I seem to have to gane from raging to Papa Bear. Don't mess with my kids...


My girls are adapting to having Dad doing everything, all the time. The oldest two are helping out around the house. I don't won't them doing too much as they are still kids but the little things help.


The funny thing is I just bought a MiniVan (God save me, lol) and I am drop my girls off at school everyday and I pick them up.


We sat down Saturday Night and mapped out who was doing what, where and when. So just call me Dad the taxi.


I turned a few faces last night when I took my littlest one to ballet. I was the only guy there. I think some of the mothers were offended,,oh well, better get use to it.


Jack...