How do you play nice?
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|Mon, 03-23-2009 - 7:37pm|
I've recently found some text messages in my husbands phone that indicate he may be having (or starting) an emotional affair. (See post: Scared and Sad- Found Out Today)
I haven't confronted him about any of the messages or even mentioned the OW over the weekend. I am waiting until I have concrete evidence that something inappropriate is going on. (Although I think the messages are enough- I want something that he can't talk his way out of.)
My husband has always been very affectionate... ever since we were dating. (Hugs, kisses, hand holding, compliments, gifts, etc) But for the past few days it's enraging me to hear him compliment me. And I want to throw all his little gifts at him. I try not to brace myself when he hugs me. And kissing him/having sex with him is almost enough to bring me to tears.
My question is: How do you continue to act normal when you're feeling like Hell?