How flirty is this???????????

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
How flirty is this???????????
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Mon, 05-10-2010 - 7:59pm

Hi...


Found this instant message on H's found...Just was wondering how over the line this is...a woman sent this "watcha ya

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 3:28pm
Hi...This was an Instant message on the phone not a text...no way to track it....Someone sent it either from their phone or computer,, but does not show a phone number
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 12:30am
He still could have responded to her in some other way. He could have a secret e mail account that you don't know about. He still could have this I need attention from other women problem. It may or may not be one of those 2 past OW, but if it's not then what other woman did he give his cell phone no. to that is texting him? Did he give it out to a new woman now? You need to find out WHO is texting him. Also has it occurred to you that he may be deleting his outgoing and incoming texts, and just slipped up and missed this one. Not to scare you, but I'd check into this a bit further if I were you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 12:03am

Ya know, the problem with this kind of message is if he's cheated already in the past, that has sent a CLEAR message he's that "type" (a message all of us here are familiar with, unfortunately - we've all been shocked to learn we married that KIND of guy/woman).

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-01-2009
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 10:34pm

thank for the advice....I was only comforted in the knowledge that he did not reply to this message....He left the message on his phone for a week and in all that time he did not respond to this woman...........And I really dont want him to know I am checking..If he were to be doing something wrong again I dont want to alert him and send him underground I want solid irrefutable undeniable proof..This isnt enough...He did not even respond to her message.....


thank again...

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-09-2010
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 9:15pm
I would be fuming too - get the phone number it was texted from - go to whitepages.com see if you can find out who it is - 1st - be vigilant - and careful and by all means find out what the hell is going on.... sounds like 'trouble' to me too! Who cares if he knows you are checking?
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-25-2007
Mon, 05-10-2010 - 8:24pm

That message would make me crazy.....firstly i always think a woman that uses a flirty name like "trouble" - she knows and he knows that he is up to no good... why is he getting messages from woman!!?? a married man should only be communicating with his wife!!!!!! (thats the only woman that he should be getting messages from.....) i would be fuming....