How to move on after an affair
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|Fri, 03-13-2009 - 2:02am|
I found out my husband was having an affair, which he denied, and then became a super sleuth to find out as much as I could about what was going on. He eventually confessed, after faced with the evidence, and swore that it was over. It continued until fairly recently when I got in touch with the other woman and told her to back off. To make things more complicated my husband has faced a crisis at work, through no fault of his own, and is suffering severe depression.
We decided that we would try to move on from all this but I admit that I had become obsessed with finding out as much as I could about the affair and recently hacked into my husband and the B****s secret email account. I spent all day reading all the messages that they sent each other over the year of the affair. I now feel thoroughly ill and images of all their rendezvous and what they did to each other are stuck in my head. Even worse, it wasn't all about sex, they seemed to adore each other and my husband used all the terms of endearmetnt I thought were special for me. He also