How often do affairs work out?

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How often do affairs work out?
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Sat, 07-28-2012 - 5:07pm

I know, such a simple common question. 

My hub has known his AP for 7 years - maybe 6 of those as just friends.    They do all sort of yoga & mind-spiritual stuff together.   They swear they are soulmates.   He says he's never felt this way about someone and she is he love of his life.   They plan to marry as soon as we're divorced.

On the other hand, these two, who originally were "respectable" decent people,  have had to LIE & LIE & LIE to keep this going.   Thus far, I've found no one who's supportive of the two.   Well, maybe her best friend & their spiritual teacher.    My family has ousted him right out.   Have the feeling his family is not going to be real supportive either.

I'm worried.    Is anyone else worried hearing this?    Does it sound impressive one way or the other?

How often do affairs work out?

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Sat, 07-28-2012 - 8:56pm
TY. I hadnt heard Dr phils perspective. And i am determined to heal myself well before diving in again. Praying that timing will work w.he i am supposed to be with....that is if there is one...... :smileyhappy: