How would you interpret this?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
How would you interpret this?
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Wed, 01-26-2011 - 4:56pm

Been stewing over this for weeks and I'd like some feedback ... am I making something out of nothing?

H and I were eating out at a place we go to often. It was going okay, pretty typical. Toward the end a woman came by our table really quick and before I knew it DUMPED a drink over H's head and ran out. I only got a glimpse of her and she did not look familiar.

H didn't seem shocked really, just startled. I was really embarrassed, everyone was staring at us. He cleaned himself up and we paid and left. He said he didn't recognize the woman, barely got a look at her. He was not as mad as I thought he would be. He's a cop and wound up pretty tight and goes off on a lot of things ... what do you think?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 2:22pm
I'm sorry I didn't recognize your name. And please don't edit your words because of me. I thought you had read some of the history in the thread.

And I was so dismayed at her answer that she deserved to know if he was having an affair because of her safety, etc., etc. But she didn't believe he deserved to know about her past affairs or the one she's having now.

I made assumptions about your posts that I shouldn't have. Sorry.

 

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Registered: 11-14-2008
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 4:01pm

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 10:44pm
Oh, that's just great.

 

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 7:46am

Hello everyone,

Just a reminder that this board is meant to be a safe place for betrayed spouses and that, if you are not a betrayed spouse, it's probably best that you move onto another board.

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Registered: 03-09-2010
Wed, 03-16-2011 - 7:09pm
Cat, after you outed her she hasn't been back posting here. Wonder why? Thanks for all your sharing
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Registered: 03-18-2011
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 1:32pm
No, I don't tell, and he doesn't know. If he thought I was up to something I'm sure he would try to find out, just like I'm trying to find out about him.
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Registered: 03-18-2011
Fri, 03-18-2011 - 1:41pm
Ditto on everything you've said.
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Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 03-19-2011 - 12:41am
crazyheart422 wrote:
Cat, after you outed her she hasn't been back posting here. Wonder why? Thanks for all your sharing

LOL!

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2009
Sat, 03-19-2011 - 12:44am
Thanks.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-18-2008
Sun, 03-20-2011 - 7:07am

Still lurking but won't post here any more after this. Thanks for the feedback everyone.

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