I dont want my family being nose so I erased my post.
So sorry you are going through this. Your kids are just so young too. My ex left our family twice, both times for women he was having affairs with, he did not want to work on our marriage ever. The first time, we ended up getting back together, but this time, he is living with the OW. My kids are older, my two youngest were 11, and 14 when he left (Nov. 0), and it has been a tough thing for all of us to go through. You will get through this, but it is not going to be easy, especially at first. Perhaps when you husband leaves, he might realize what he has lost, but you just never know. Please look up the 180 on this message board, and do as many of them as you can, it does help.
Take care of yourself, and those little ones,
So sorry you are in such pain and that your H is being soooo selfish. Just know that you will get through this no matter what happens. Even though it is hard to even think straight right now, there are things you really need to do. First is to get a consultation with a lawyer just to find out what your rights are. I also recommend calling your doctor because you are going through a severe trauma and for me it really helped to take a anti-anxiety med during the rough time.
Remember that your H is in the affair fog right now so he is only thinking of what makes him "feel good". Another poster recommended you take a look the the "180" and impliment some of those actions as those actions are another way to get back the power and strength you will need.
Keep posting here, there is lots of kindness and understanding on this board. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
He is for sure leaving. He was being very cold about it tonight to. Maybe because hes tired and I kept pushing the issue (i need answers). Or maybe because of guilt.
He kept making me think he might stay or that we might get back together sometime,because I am