husband cheats again

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Registered: 05-04-2008
husband cheats again
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Tue, 03-24-2009 - 6:33pm

My husband cheated on me. I decided to forgive him and move on we have beautiful kids together it was difficult for me to forgive him but for the sake of my kids I decided to forgive him. Deep inside I felt hurt and betrayed but decided to move on. Now I find out that he is at it again. Found his another email by accident and found out that he had chats with different women and he planned on meeting them at a hotel to have sex. when I asked him he refused to admit it. one time I caught him on his way out to meet another woman but he still went I had to call him and think about the kids he came back. He is a selfish idiot he never thinks how his actions hurt the family . when i question him he tells me he is

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 7:33am

When you "just move on" w/o counseling or therapy to uncover why your H pursues these activiites, you almost guarantee it will happen again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-09-2008
Wed, 03-25-2009 - 7:55am
I agree. You are teaching your children that behavior like this is ACCEPTABLE. If he shows no remorse then get yourself a good attorney and go after his ASSets. If you live in a community property state EVERYTHING is half yours. You can do it!
S