I can't believe I stoop 2 this level

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Registered: 07-07-2004
I can't believe I stoop 2 this level
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Sun, 01-18-2009 - 11:15am

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Registered: 12-13-2007
Sun, 01-18-2009 - 11:37am
You go girl. Leave his crap on the porch so you don't have to deal with it any longer.
Pregnancy%20ticker
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Registered: 09-05-2006
Sun, 01-18-2009 - 1:37pm

my grandmother use to have a saying - 'crazy people only respond to crazy' as you said you tried and enough is enough.

hopefully, now, finally they will get it - you are not a pushover and certainly NO dummy.

he wanted her, now he can have her - lock, stock, and barrel.

now is your time, to live, laugh, smile, enjoy, but most of all be at peace that it is finally o v e r. start making plans, do not just think them in your mind, say them outloud, and write them down.

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Registered: 05-09-2008
Sun, 01-18-2009 - 1:50pm
THIS woman kicks butt! I like her! Go Go GO!
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Registered: 09-09-2008
Mon, 01-19-2009 - 2:03am
Why is it they don't take you seriously?

 

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 01-19-2009 - 7:26am
Send a certified, signature-required letter to him at whatever address (work?) you can find him giving him two weeks to come get his stuff, after which point it will be donated to charity.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 01-19-2009 - 8:52am

So, finally you are tired of being taken advantage of. They have been counting on you being a doormat and have behaved toward you accordingly. That is done now. Be prepared of their righteous indignation and whining over this. If they start blaming you, tell them if they had not made such bad choices you wouldn't have had any reason to make any calls. They made their own bed.

Now, drop his crip off in this mother's front yard. Really, put it in garbage bags and just dump it...on a rainy day preferably. Be done with him a move on with your life.