I can't believe what an a## he is

Sad- there is nothing pretty about aftermath of an affair. But I want to tell you this. When I first read your posts, you sounded like a very lost, fragile and devastated person fearful of what the next day will bring. Today I read a post from a woman who sounds stronger, much more self assured with determination. Next week you may again feel devastation but it will lessen in very small increments over time. Like you, my anger was my "fuel." the angry days were when I was the most productive.

Like we have been telling you, YOU are the person you can control. You have to plan knowing he may or may not be there beside you. You need you and your children depend on their momma to make everything right in their world. Real life has to go on. If your husband chooses fantasy land, so be it.

I am very very sorry Sad. Sorry he is blinded, misguided, the air will clear one day. Just keep focusing on you and what you want out of this life. You deserve the moon. Take care!