I just can't believe the nerve!!!!!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-08-2003
I just can't believe the nerve!!!!!!!!
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Fri, 02-13-2009 - 2:09pm

Last post was finding a womens ring in my house, I know who she is, she know's who I am and has for years. No longer with H, he is living with hsi mother.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2007
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 5:36pm
I wouldnt give the ring back.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 6:06pm
I swear some people have a lot of nerve. No integrity whatsoever. If she calls again tell her to have Tootsie come over and get it herself so you can shove it down her throat. I would be be BEYOND PISSED if I were you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-22-2004
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 7:52pm

Wow, the nerve of her is right!!! I would keep that ring if I were you, after all why should you return it after what she did!!! Boy, if I had my ex's OW's ring, I don't know what I would do, I would have to think about it for awhile! I certainly wouldn't return it though!

Take care,

Lori

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-08-2003
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 8:44pm

Thanks for all the advice and support, at this point she is not getting it

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2008
Fri, 02-13-2009 - 11:42pm

I would not return the ring, it should never have been in YOUR home in the first place. If you throw it to her at the bar that only gives her more power and she would get what she wants.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2008
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 9:53pm

I would'nt return it. I'd take it to a pawn shop.


bling

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2005
Sat, 02-14-2009 - 10:41pm

Id be at the pond shop LOL


What a flake she is.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2008
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 11:16am

What would you do? How did she even know I have it, 1. she left it on purpose or 2. she called my H to find out if he knew where it was and he told her I have it.


I'd bet a whole lot of money on #1.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-21-2008
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 11:33am

I agree with Doubletrouble. This skank is looking for a reaction. I know it's hard to NOT react and engage with the losers - but the way I look at it is the ring must of not meant that much to her to have left it behind. I also think she left it on purpose.


Here is a person that slept with a married man - and she is counting on YOU to do the right thing and return it? It my opinion, when people act like that women did, when it comes to "doing the right thing", all bets are off.


Should not have slept with my H.


bling

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-08-2003
Sun, 02-15-2009 - 1:23pm

Again thank you for all the words of support, and you are all very right, any reaction to her would be exactly what she wants so I have not called back which I'm sure is a thorn in her side and knowing that she is wondering if