I think hes having an affair

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2011
I think hes having an affair
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 12:54pm

Well i dont know where on earth i should write this but i thought i would try this board x

I have been with my fella for nearly 7 years now and have two children together but recently hes been acting very strange doesnt care if i go out with friends infact literally demands i should ( never done thats ever ) ... Then hes constantly on the whole facebook site and i mean his phone goes everywere with him even into the bathroom when hes having a shower the lot just so out of character for him usually leaves it lying about everywere also caught him messaging a girl on it the other night when he thought i was asleep ( i havnt said anything about that ) .

But now its started to get worse his usual working hours are four days a week they have increased to

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 4:49pm
You are not imagining anything. Him suddenly taking his cell phone everywhere he goes including the bathroom (when he used to leave it lying around) is a big sign of cheating. As is the suddenly putting in all those extra hours at work after the normal time (and not getting paid for them) I would say he is seeing someone else. Those are both too big of cheating signs to ignore.
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Registered: 07-13-2011
Tue, 10-18-2011 - 5:29pm
I agree with peacey. Go with your gut, it's telling. You something. Time to plan for how and what you are going to do. Phone records? Get them. Bank records? Get them. You are on to him and you will find what you need. So so sorry.