Internet Cheating

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Registered: 04-20-2010
Internet Cheating
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Tue, 04-20-2010 - 3:28pm

My husband of 26 years works out of town Monday thru Friday.

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Registered: 01-28-2004
Tue, 04-20-2010 - 3:59pm

Hugs and welcome to the board. I know this is hard. My husband looked around on dating sights as well. (at home while i was at work) its not easy to try to trust them again. You just have to take it day by day. Talk about what is bothering you and how it hurts. Let him know your feelings.

Have you thought about writing a journal? it might help.

Hang in there.

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Registered: 04-20-2010
Wed, 04-21-2010 - 2:06pm
Thanks for the advice.
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Registered: 01-28-2004
Wed, 04-21-2010 - 5:06pm

Im sure your still trying to process the whole story. Im soo sorry. Hugs and lots of them.

Marriages, last. no matter how long or short. but only if both parties are willing to make them last.

Have you talked to a therapist about all this yet?

hugs hang in there.

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Registered: 04-20-2010
Sun, 04-25-2010 - 10:48pm

Get yourself to a counselor asap. Take care of you. Don't make any decisions yet. You need time. You need to process.

I found out my husband of almost 30 years was seeing a prostitute for the past 2 years. I found out only because he ended up with genital herpes. So far I have tested negative. I didn't know what to do, who to talk to. I didn't eat, sleep or function. My children and some true friends have helped me so much. This forum has really caring people that helped me too. Lean on the people who love you.

I am trying to work things out with my husband in marriage counseling, time will tell. We are living apart and I am taking it very slowly, one day at a time. It's all I can do. I felt like an idiot, inadequate, and alot of other things. I'am not and neither are you. You know deep down what kind of person you are. One who deserves love and respect. I am getting stronger, you will to.

Hugs to you