Is it really infidelity?

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Registered: 05-08-2009
Is it really infidelity?
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Fri, 05-08-2009 - 2:24pm
Hi everyone,

This is my first time posting.

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Registered: 01-07-2009
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 5:56pm
No, I don't think you are over reacting at all but I do think it is most fortunate that you caught it when you did.
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Registered: 01-07-2009
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 6:04pm
I just wanted to add and not edit, you can make it a lot of fun sexually together forever. It does not mean doing things you are uncomfortable with, never do that
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Registered: 02-04-2009
Sat, 05-09-2009 - 10:38am

Your husband probably feels it's "just words on a screen" and therefore harmless.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 05-08-2009
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 12:06pm

Thank you thinkingman6008.

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Registered: 02-04-2009
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 5:53pm

Whoa, that's a tough one and I have to say every individual and every couple and every situation is different.

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 05-08-2009
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 8:25am

Well, at this point, the whole issue is moot.

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Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 05-13-2009 - 8:51am

Hi Mommylisa,

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Wed, 05-13-2009 - 11:56am
Thank you Ollie.
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Wed, 05-13-2009 - 12:48pm

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Registered: 12-19-2008
Sun, 05-17-2009 - 3:09pm
It's the trust issue that is so hard, even when no sex is involved. It's the betrayal and the lying. Even if you don't think you want to retain your marriage, you should consider counseling to help you put a graceful end to it.

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