It was all a lie

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
It was all a lie
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 10:54am

I don't know where to turn, or how to get through this.

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Registered: 06-27-2007
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 12:59pm

Every up and down in one's life is a test.

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 7:51pm

Help me understand what you have wrote"

dragowoman

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Registered: 06-08-2011
Wed, 06-08-2011 - 10:33pm


I am sorry if I didn't explain myself clearly, Two years ago we separated, last summer we got back to together, then this winter due to financial reasons he gave up the house here and I moved in with my daughter.

Before I moved we had the discussion whether to continue and try to save our marriage, or not, at that time we decided to continue. I wanted it to continue and he went along with it.

It was this past Memorial Day that he went away, the week before last.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 12:55am

Thank you.

dragowoman

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Registered: 06-08-2011
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 4:07pm

I'd rather not say what kind of club due to wanting to protect my anonymity and wives are allowed, and yes I went before the initial breakup but not since.

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Registered: 07-02-2008
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 8:01pm
Please don't give up on the support you can gain here. This board has been a bit slow for months. Xxx seems to be a troll here as of late so ignore that one. I'm at work but will post in later for you. Have you looked up the "180" threads here? The "180" seems just right for you at this point. If another vet is here, please bump for her.
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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 8:42pm

rather not say what kind of club due to wanting to protectmy anonymity and wives are allowed, and yes I went before the initial breakup but not since.

dragowoman

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 06-09-2011 - 8:44pm

Hmm personal attack.

dragowoman

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Fri, 06-10-2011 - 9:30am

Hi Hopelesscollipe

My mantra to cope was actually something your wrote "He is not the man I thought he was." remind yourself when you are feeling down or missing him - the guy you are missing does not exist

Take one step at a time, get exercise, rest, read, rejuvenate yourself - rebuild yourself (living well is the best revenge although you need to just release him to karma let life take care of the situation for you)

you are better off without his infulence in your life, I can relate - the poster here xxxs may mean well but I do not get the feeling he has ever been a betrayed spouse and if you have not been there you cannot know

read through this board seeing you are not alone will be a great help and hold your head up high for having integrity

peace & strength to you

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Fri, 06-10-2011 - 11:50am

Colliope,

I'm sorry you are struggling right now.

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