It was all a lie

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
It was all a lie
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 10:54am

I don't know where to turn, or how to get through this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
Fri, 06-10-2011 - 4:45pm

Thanks to all the real responses.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Fri, 06-10-2011 - 5:58pm

Hugs to you hope!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
Sat, 06-11-2011 - 7:30pm

Thank you for your response.

We already are living separately and we were (I thought) slowly rebuilding, we were actually dating for lack of a better term.

He doesn't support me, so that is not an issue, I am in college, going into my second year, I am not young either, (47), but over the last couple years I have set myself some good goals.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2008
Sun, 06-12-2011 - 7:02am

That's fabulous that you are going back to school.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2011
Sun, 06-12-2011 - 4:08pm

I must say that your posts puzzle me. The first thing I notice is the ho in a state of undress, what is that about? You also seem somewhat confrontational with victims? They are here for support, not the third degree. What is your story? Are you a victim of betrayal?

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Sun, 06-12-2011 - 10:52pm

What victim?

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2011
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 5:28pm

There you go again, of course you are not confrontational and condescending, or course not! How could I even suggest such a thing! Would you like me to hold your crown now? If you can't help people who are hurting then don't post. When someone reacts as this poster has, you are not helping. period.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
Mon, 06-13-2011 - 9:57pm

Actually you are wrong if you would have read my first post correctly, you would have seen that even though we separated, we got BACK together, and that is when this all happened.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Tue, 06-14-2011 - 1:58am

If you are so eager to help then why is your posts off topic?

I need to ask questions as this is the first time i heard this story if she has posted before that i did not read.

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2011
Tue, 06-14-2011 - 5:45am

LOL. Your post and it's inappropriate tone was my topic. Read her reply to your post. She did not find it helpful, or particularly accurate. Pontification may be good for your soul, but for hers? Not so much.