It was all a lie

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
It was all a lie
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Wed, 06-08-2011 - 10:54am

I don't know where to turn, or how to get through this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
Tue, 06-14-2011 - 9:50am

I couldn't have said it better myself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2007
Tue, 06-14-2011 - 10:58pm

Warning:

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 12:36am

RE:choseone

Oh another personal attack.

dragowoman

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Registered: 06-08-2011
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 6:03am

Since you did not write one thing that was conducive to helping me, only inane questions that had no bearing, and you did not address

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 9:40am

in regards to xxxs I find his input edgy and challenging (some of it really gets on my nerves) though he claims to be a betrayed spouse, maybe it was some time ago as he does not seem to be in the same space as some of us and that is ok because we are all different

but a few days ago I saw a poster - the post is titled MY STORY on this forum and the poster was thanking him for his response and going to print it out

I think xxxs has been trying to get the hang of this board and his posts are getting more empathetic when he is not attacked

I was very suprised that the poster in that case was extremely grateful for his reply and have to say Kudos xxxs for giving that woman what she needed

we are here because we need support and he just may need it too

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 10:42am

I have read many of xxxs posts over the months and it is often like reading a book of proverbs or something. I find myself often wondering what exactly he is trying to say. The style of writing is different. I think the best advice is that if you do not like someone's post or advice, just ignore them. It provides the best chance for them to become disinterested and go away.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 3:56pm

So when a person does not completely understand they are too assume?

dragowoman

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2011
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 7:54pm

Whatever....

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2011
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 7:59pm

I do agree that this person is a troll. There may be some point to his posting from time to time, but it's mostly just self aggrandizement and provocation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2011
Wed, 06-15-2011 - 8:05pm

I hope you understand that you are my concern here. I did not call this guy out because I'm pugnacious but because I think his approach to you was inappropriate and possible hurtful. I have really been in your shoes, and I wish you the very best.