I don't know where to turn, or how to get through this.
Thank you for the advice, I am not a big advocate of counseling, I went for over a year at one time, (he went with me three times, then walked out).
Colliope, you mentioned that you have returned to college.
I understood you were defending me, he is the one who brought the attention to himself.
I hope you understand that you are my concern here. I did not call this guy out because I'm pugnacious but because I think his approach to you was inappropriate and possible hurtful. I have really been in your shoes, and I wish you the very best.
I do agree that this person is a troll. There may be some point to his posting from time to time, but it's mostly just self aggrandizement and provocation.
So when a person does not completely understand they are too assume?
I have read many of xxxs posts over the months and it is often like reading a book of proverbs or something. I find myself often wondering what exactly he is trying to say. The style of writing is different. I think the best advice is that if you do not like someone's post or advice, just ignore them. It provides the best chance for them to become disinterested and go away.
in regards to xxxs I find his input edgy and challenging (some of it really gets on my nerves) though he claims to be a betrayed spouse, maybe it was some time ago as he does not seem to be in the same space as some of us and that is ok because we are all different
but a few days ago I saw a poster - the post is titled MY STORY on this forum and the poster was thanking him for his response and going to print it out
I think xxxs has been trying to get the hang of this board and his posts are getting more empathetic when he is not attacked
I was very suprised that the poster in that case was extremely grateful for his reply and have to say Kudos xxxs for giving that woman what she needed
we are here because we need support and he just may need it too
Since you did not write one thing that was conducive to helping me, only inane questions that had no bearing, and you did not address