iVoices: Cheating Dilemmas - To Tell or Not to Tell?

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Registered: 04-21-2008
iVoices: Cheating Dilemmas - To Tell or Not to Tell?
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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 11:50am

iVoices: Cheating Dilemmas - To Tell or Not to Tell?

iVoice Beth Engelman, whose ex-husband cheated on her, asks this question -- if you learned your friend's husband was cheating, would you tell her?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2008
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 12:02pm
yes
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 12:15pm

Yes, you would tell?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2007

I'd like to see more responses to this question, because I find myself in a moral dilemma about something that bears similarity to this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2007

I'm curious about this, too.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008

This would be a hard decision to make. Although I feel she should know, I would wonder does she really want to know. But I would not want to be the one to tell her and break her heart either. What I would probably do, and this is only IF I have concrete proof of it (like I would have needed to actually seen them kissing, or somehow seen some e mails he sent the OW that made it obvious that they were actually having an affair) Anyhow I would probably tell her H that I know and tell him IF he doesn't come clean with her, that I would consider telling her myself. In a way I would feel as though I was betraying her trust by not telling her though. Some thoughts that would go thru my mind are... what if he isn't using protection and she got an STD, or the OW got pregnant?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

Ick Goddess, that does not sound like a fun situation to be in!

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Registered: 04-21-2008

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2008

Great minds think alike!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
That's right Tasha : )
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-18-2007
Fri, 03-25-2011 - 10:49pm

Tasha,

Oh, it gets even more convoluted than that.

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