Just found out

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-29-2009
Just found out
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Fri, 01-30-2009 - 3:28am
W of 8yrs has been having EA(maybe more) for last 6+months. Won't answer ?'s. Feels like heart been riped out. Found out by fixing her Laptop and phone at her request. Has nude pics on phone but will not say how got pics. Can anyone help? please still love her
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-13-2009
In reply to: hconfused
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 7:11am

What do you want to do?


You can put a GPS tracking device in her car to see if she is meeting him someplace.


I am a little over a month out from my d-day. The shock hurts. Do you have kids?


Who is naked in the picture W or OM?


If she won'tr answer any questions I would keep up the questions. If the guy is someone she works with maybe its time to have lunch with her at her office.


Jack....


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-16-2009
In reply to: hconfused
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 9:19am
if she took the pic's it's bad any way you look at it.if she's not answering she's hiding something.i know you love her but the only thing cheaters do best is hurt you.i think you need to find out what happened or maybe what might have but you need to know if you could have some disease.I'm sorry for your pain.good luck
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2006
In reply to: hconfused
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 9:19pm

without truth there is no foundation to rebuild on.

what you are suppose to just forget about what you saw????

you deserve better, but only you can draw the line in the sand.

it is time for her to answer any and all questions, honestly and heart felt.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2009
In reply to: hconfused
Sun, 02-01-2009 - 6:57pm

Go after the truth, if that is what you want.