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|Tue, 07-28-2009 - 2:00am|
I remember my stbx telling me that, it was exciting knowing he was going behind my back looking at porn, because he knew I didn't like that he hid it. He said he hid it to spare my feelings. I told him those are basically the thoughts people get when they cheat....... he said porn is about fantasy and cheating involves a real person. For some reason I see a very fine line between the two regarding hiding it. I'm obsessing about this right now. Why would someone say that??? That sounds so similar to saying that he gets excited knowing he is going behind my back and cheating, and hiding it to spare my feelings. What do you guys think???