Just when you think it can't get worse

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Just when you think it can't get worse
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Tue, 09-07-2010 - 3:52pm

so the H came home this weekend full of promises that he wanted to work on our marriage. and at first things where great he was very attentive/loving displayed affection when that not his normal thing. I'm the one that likes to hold hands. but as the weekend passed i noticed once again he might as well have had his phone surgically attached to his ass - there just seemed no way he was going to put it any where there was a remote possiblity i could see.


long story short he is still texting her. and got pissed when i sent her a note telling her to Foff. so the OW sent him a

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Registered: 08-09-2010
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 5:33pm

Good for you. He is still caught up in it all. and isn't "there" yet, still in the fantasy world....

if you set someone free and they come back, they are yours forever.

are you in counseling yet?

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Registered: 04-16-2008
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 2:26pm
You did the right thing by giving him an ultimatum. If anything he now knows that you are not playing anymore games with him. If he knows you are ready to walk he knows will have to make a decision. As far as not talking to her, you need to remind him that your spouse should be your best friend AND the one you come and talk to about your life. He is just using that "I need a friend to talk to" as an excuse to remain in contact with her.
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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 12:37pm
Waiting is hard, isn't it?

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 11:49am
That's basically what i told him. that she is manipulating
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 11:41am
Not yet i called my dr and he told me to wait a week as i've never been regular. and as i have a lot of false results before :(.
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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 09-08-2010 - 11:31am
I just wanted to send you some big (HUGS). Did you take another test?

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Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 09-07-2010 - 6:13pm

Oh no, she's playing him, just like you think.