Ladies Help Please

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Registered: 07-02-2009
Ladies Help Please
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Thu, 07-02-2009 - 5:38am
Well Hello my name is Kathy I'm 31, I have 4 kids (my husband and I#.
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Registered: 05-23-2009
Thu, 07-02-2009 - 8:07am

I'm not 100% sure I am following right ... so if some of my responses make no sense, please note they are based on what I think you are saying.


If members of his family are using her, or the knowledge of her, to torment you -- HE needs to tell them to STOP.

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Thu, 07-02-2009 - 8:09am

HWH..I feel your pain. My W had an affair and I kicked her out. We have 4 girls that live with me.


My inlaws were furious that I would throw her out. Her family came down on me like a ton of bricks. Her family tried every form of cajoling, guilt and intimidation. When my W was fired from her job and charged with drug dealing then things changed. For me the bridge had already been burnt. MY W had a nervous breakdown, combined with drug withdrawal landed her in a Psych Hospital.


My in-laws finally backed off when one of her brothers threatened my sister. My dad showed at his palce of work and threw him up against a wall. The facts of life were explained to him. He was shamed (he wet his pants) infront

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 07-02-2009 - 8:59am
Being betrayed is an emotional trauma and has to be dealt with as such.
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Registered: 07-02-2009
Thu, 07-02-2009 - 5:02pm

Thanks LILy


I think you are right I am going to try to seek help before its too late...