Learn to trust

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2010
Learn to trust
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Tue, 11-30-2010 - 12:52am

This is my husband first trip since I found out about his on-line affair in august. I want to believe him when he says it's over but I am so afraid that it's not. I try not to be overbearing and I can see he tries to put me at ease but it still does not feel right. Is this that intuition that something is wrong that failed before now kicking in, or am I just paranoid?

She lives out side of the country, but was planning on meeting him anyway, and then she e-mails last week to let him know that she is moving here. I got worried about our safety, if the spurned lover is moving half way across the world, it's not shouting well balanced to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 1:12am

Why is she moving to where you live from outside of the country?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 1:23am

She e-mailed him, but I got the e-mail - I clear that account now.

She said when he sent her a picture of our neightbourhood she fell in love and when she was planning on visiting him and it did not work out she ened up buying a house here. I think it is all crap and she is just trying to lure him back into disscussion. The e-mail said that there would be three of them moving here.

Thanks for being up by the way, tonight has been hard.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:51am
Yes, be sure to cancel any e mail accounts that she has access to. What do you mean by 3 of them moving here?