Listen to your intuition...

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Listen to your intuition...
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Fri, 01-27-2012 - 1:16pm

I posted a previous discussion called "What would you do"

Well, thats it. Was out with the boyfriend at a bar with friends and left early. He came home a couple of hours later and fell asleep on the couch. I came down and found him and his phone lit up. A number that isn't saved. I read it... and he had been deleting the conversation so could only read half... lots of kisses... lots of 'goodnights' even a 'you know we can't do that now xxx'. This girl knows he is in a relationship. He promised it was a mistake. Promised it was a one off. Nope. HA! He just changed the channel on which they communicated. I thought he was being a little protective of his phone... anyway, just wanted to say that something wasn't right in the weeks since i found his emails... i could feel it in my gut. My intuition was right. Always listen to it!

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Sat, 01-28-2012 - 10:13pm

(((Abbey)))

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Sun, 01-29-2012 - 12:01am
Well, i've asked him to move out and he is staying at a friends place (still telling me that its a mistake). I need to first look at the consequences of ending a lease out of contract and then where I can live. I've withdrawn my portion of money contributed in our joint account and mentally making lists of what is mine and what is his.Thanks for the support :)
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Sun, 01-29-2012 - 8:57am

It sounds like you are on top of it all.

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Sun, 01-29-2012 - 3:10pm
Thanks... it gets worse. Have now found a secret email account set up since i found his original emails. He never cut off contact like he said. Texts and sectret email account. And they are having sex.
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Mon, 01-30-2012 - 6:38am

(((Abbey)))

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Wed, 02-01-2012 - 10:03pm
Thanks Ollie. I moved out yesterday and took my stuff and what we bought together. I'm staying at a friends for a few weeks until I can figure out a plan. This is such a horrible situation and will never understand why anyone would cheat and put their loved ones through this! I know i've been through this before and got through it... but when you're in the middle of it it just feels like a big dark hole that you can't crawl out of.
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Fri, 02-03-2012 - 9:45am

Hugs Abbey,