Live in boyfriend "cyber cheating"

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Registered: 02-09-2010
Live in boyfriend "cyber cheating"
Tue, 02-09-2010 - 11:00am

Hi, I didnt know who else to talk to about this, so i picked some strangers! I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, things moved quickley and we now live together. In the begining of the relationship, I went through his cell phone and found text messages to other girls, saying sexual things. I called him out on it, he cried and said he would never do it again, and deleted the girls.

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Registered: 01-16-2008
Tue, 02-09-2010 - 2:17pm

seems like he changes when you are not in sight
I would not get very serious maybe even move on
he is telling you one thing and doing another
be happy you found out in a timely manner (and not like most of us here after marriage and kids)
he is not on the same level with you emotionally
you deserve better and that means a genuine honest relationship

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Tue, 02-09-2010 - 2:33pm
Hi I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Perhaps you should try reposting this on one of these other forums, which may be a better fit: Betrayed Girlfriends Support, Cyber-Cheating & Emotional Affairs.