Looked me in the face and lied

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Registered: 12-31-1969
Looked me in the face and lied
Wed, 08-08-2012 - 6:41am

Briefly visited this board last fall after discovered "emotional" affair going on.  Husband made the call to start counseling, and attended.  Thought things were going better.  Really have had a great couple of months and I was considering  Baby #2.  Then found  a new email account left open - the new cheating account - with the messages from Ashley Madison and others.  Learned all during counseling he was having a physical affair, which only ended when she got caught.   

Hurt and really pissed off.  Not sure what I want to do.  All the "I'm sorries, I love yous" can't change the fact that 1) have now screwed me over 2x and 2) was actively looking to do it again.

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Registered: 02-22-1999
Thu, 08-09-2012 - 7:43am
I'm sorry. I hope today is a day that at least brings you some clarity and peace. Hugs to you.