loosing my mnd

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Registered: 05-27-2008
loosing my mnd
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Tue, 06-23-2009 - 2:07pm

I feel like

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 2:15pm

It sounds like your H has some issues in establishing proper boundaries.

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Registered: 05-27-2008
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 2:58pm
Thanks for your reply. He actually does tell me that he has nothing to hide and does tell me that I can read all his emails and texts. But for some reason this doesnt make me feel any better. I have been reading them and they are completely simple little chats. I just dont want to be completely consumed by this and feel I have to do this everyday in order to know..
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Registered: 02-04-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 3:16pm
You may want to start here http://www.shirleyglass.com/

"If something cannot go on forever, it will stop."  Herb Stein

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Registered: 08-12-2007
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 3:55pm
I feel your pain,I too have experienced similar experiences the questions in your mind never end.Sometimes
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Registered: 01-07-2009
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 4:15pm
Innocent little email chat
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Registered: 05-27-2008
Tue, 06-23-2009 - 4:17pm
Thanks so much. I know what you mean. I am so upset now. I am at work and beside myself. Part of me wants to tell him to stop as I feel could escalate. Other part tells me that if he values me and loves me enough he would know his limits. I just dont know what to do. I just know I am in tears all day and at the moment as well. I feel like I am living the past right now. I want to trust him. I also dont want to feel like I have to check on him either. I dont want to be controlling either. I just want him to see where I am coming from and understand me. I also dont want to push him away either.
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Registered: 04-16-2008
Wed, 06-24-2009 - 1:58am
And keep in mind that in reading these boards that you will find out that most affairs start out with innocent e mails that escalate into more. I'm always leery of personal e mails going back and forth between opposite sex co workers that have NOTHING to do with business.