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|Sun, 01-18-2009 - 3:36pm|
For some background, I've been married just over a year. We're both active duty military and are stationed in separate places. (He's in Nevada, I'm in Delaware). We've been long distance for all but a month of our relationship, including dating.
So, the thing is this. I found quite a few emails from him to other girls that live in Vegas, usually nothing more than just hi, but there were some that asked if they would like to meet or if they'd have sex. He joined a couple of dating sites, put an ad on craigslist...
I confronted him about all of it, and he said nothing happened besides the emails. I forgave him for it, but it's really hard to trust him again. I've been trying, and he's been doing his best to make it up to me. I do trust that he never actually cheated on me, and that it would stop.
I just want to know how you move on and get past it? We've been through a lot the past couple of years, but it hasn't been anything we couldn't work through. I know we can work through this too, and it's really up to me if it does work. It wasn't anything I couldn't forgive him for, but it still really hurts.
How do you do it? Any advice for me would be wonderful.