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|Sat, 03-28-2009 - 2:46pm|
I just found out that my H had more contact w/the OW. he planned on taking some time away to think and go to a hotel , but it was a ruse to "end his affair" as he says. I made him call the Ow in front of me and I told her that she can have him, but he'll cheat on her ,too. My advice to her was to go into therapy and figure out why she would want a married man- it just brings heartache. I told her I was sorry for her pain and she said the same to me. She was furious w/my H when he told her he wanted to meet to really end the affair. She said you lied to me, that he had promised to divorce me and get an apt. w/her! I am just incredulous and I kicked him out. I told him I'll see him in the therapist's office, but I want a divorce. He is beside himself, but I don't care. I can't even look at him and I told him he doesn't know how to love someone. I told the OW to find a nice guy who won't cheat and I wished her the best of luck. My H was shocked- now he's lost both of us!!!