My kids found out

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Registered: 01-13-2009
My kids found out
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Wed, 01-14-2009 - 1:49pm

The hits keep coming. My oldest, my sweet daughter, called me 45 minutes ago and wanted to know if it is true.


I could't lie to her and so I just ducked the question. After I ducked the question all she did was cry. I can't believe this.


How can I help my kids when I don't have my own act together...

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Registered: 05-09-2008
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 2:09pm

I know BTDT the first DDAY was the day before my daughter took her SAT's she obviously didn't do well. All you can do is to tell them no matter what you will still love them. Y ou and your DW might be at odds but you'll always be their Father. Depending how old they are they will, in time, understand.


Sending peace and hugs your way!


S

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Registered: 01-13-2009
Wed, 01-14-2009 - 9:47pm

Like everything else..I was not ready for my oldest to find out. I have never heard her cry like she did on the phone. I just wish this was a bad dream....