my wife devastated me--can i heal
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|Tue, 05-04-2010 - 5:34pm|
i fell in love the instant i saw her in 1993 and we were together ever since--relatively happy--good marriage --good life .
i knew my wife didnt love me anymore a long time ago---and i tried with all my might and will to change that---we had some issues --and i did everything i was asked to do to change--even she admits that.
it wasnt enough.
i caught very innaprpriate texts and e mails from a friend a while back--i was told i was crazy and i didnt tell his wife--my mistake.
so i just had that feeling ya know---and of course--innappropriate conversations on the phone and finally when confronted she admits that she likes the attention from this man and they have kissed a few times.
im just devastated---infidelity is the dealbreaker for me.----but, i love this woman with all my heart--i dont think i can carry on knowing what she did.
how can people be so selfish and ruin other lives?
can i heal--can i forgive--ugh!