NEED advice - H won't share cell rec's

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2008
NEED advice - H won't share cell rec's
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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 8:43am

Hello,


With good reason, I suspect my H of some sort of 'hanky panky' -- exactly what it might be I just can't say, but possibly it is another woman.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:08am

Is your name on the bill? If so you can request the records---who is your carrier? Mine is Verizon--there you can request records and pay a small fee for back records and they will print them-----you can also look them up online--If he has not set up this option you should and them you can pick the password-------


Innocent people have nothing to hide.


good luck--


if you are not on the acct. you may try asking for a moblie card for your computer--then you could be added

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:32am

My hope is to not snoop. (Don't ask me why?--b/c I don't have a good answer; my H rifles through my things all the time...).


I am not on the cell account.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:51am

If he had nothing to hide then he would be handing the cell records

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:11am

Those with nothing to hide, hide nothing. You need to go into evidence gathering mode.


If you have the $, a private investigator would be very effective.


Get a keylogger for any computers you have at home.


See a divorce attorney.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:43am

Show up unannounced

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:54am

I agree with all the posts---also the Regan theme--trust but verify------about the phone---are you on the small business plan?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 1:05pm

Thank you all for what is essentially good and decent advice.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 2:08pm

So you are basically asking us to find a way to make your husband fork over the cell phone records. WOW !!!


I really misunderstood what you were wanting.


Sweetie ...cheating husbands rarely if ever do that of their own free will. They will lie by omission. They will gaslight. They will deny.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 4:15pm
Absolutely!