My husband and I have been together for 19 years.
Ollie about said it all.
Well, he has removed her as a friend on Facebook and has told her to cut contact.
"And he has pretty much told me that although he is committed to working on our marriage, he doesn't see how it will work because he can't imagine feeling "that way" towards me again."
Oh Hon., that statement does not show a man "committed" to working on his M, IMO.
I have a sneaky suspicion that just sitting there in counseling thinking it'll magically help without being serious about it is pretty common.